People's Measuring Stick

Everyone has heard of people trying to keep up with the Jones', but what about those that constantly try to compare themselves with others in just everyday life, not with the material things.  Everyone wants everyone elses input on this and that asking, "What do you do?  What is best to do in this or that situation?" and then doing exactly what that person tells you.  What about what you personally think is best?  Is there something wrong with going with your gut, doing what you feel is best?  There is nothing wrong with a little advice now and then, but doing everything exactly how someone else did it may not be the best solution for you.  Be confident in yourself.  Do what you want, what you think is best, and believe me, it will be the best thing for you.  Then no one can tell you that you're doing it wrong!